I'm a frequent poster on a dating website/forum. One of the constantly reoccurring laments is that of the 'nice guy'. "Why don't girls like nice guys?" the shout into the wind, "The always go for the bad boys instead!"
It gets old fast. Here's my latest reply to a whiny 'nice guy'.
Another nice guy thread? Seriously?
I'm beginning to believe the true 'nice guy' is as mythical as the mothman or sasquatch.
If you are truly a 'nice guy' then you would offer a woman friendship with no expectations of anything in return, and therefor wouldn't be angry or disappointed by any lack of success in this area. If you're a 'nice guy' who's pissed that he's not getting any action then I submit that you actually are NOT a nice guy, but are instead a passive/aggressive player wannabe who doesn't have to confidence to actually play the game.
The 'bad boy' is often the true nice guy. He's out there being his own person with no expectations or demands. He enjoys the company of the woman that he's with for her own worth. He's not playing a game.
Have confidence in yourself, go out in the world and be who you are with a smile and no expectations. You might be very surprised how women respond.
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